Saturday, June 20, 2015

A few slight hitches...

6 June 2015
St. Andrews, New Brunswick

Late last night, after checking what has seemed over the past week to be the most unreliable and rapidly changing weather forecast possible, we re-thought the rest of our trip.  The initial plan was to head up to Nova Scotia and Prince Edward Island after Acadia.  However, it had been much colder so far than we’d hoped our “summer” vacation would be (hats and gloves on several occasions).  We toyed with the option of making our way toward Toronto and Niagara Falls instead, or just heading to Quebec City and then back down to the east coast of the US (Cape May and the Eastern Shore).  After watching the bonus features of Anne of Green Gables to see a bit of PEI, We decided to sleep on it and do a 1-2-3 vote in the morning.  I also decided to ask for opinions on Facebook.

Overwhelmingly, the social media vote was to continue onto PEI and Nova Scotia.  I was leaning that way anyway, since we’d come this far and I doubt we’d ever drive up here again with this much time on our hands.  Our 1-2-3 vote went something like this:

            Both: 1-2-3
            Me: Keep Going
            Matt: Stay Here (not one of the options)

I was upset that this was not a real mutual vote!  I didn’t want to make the decision, but I was glad of the outcome.  Cape May is do-able on a regular weekend (if it’s worth the NJ Turnpike trip, blech) and the Eastern Shore is great, but not really new scenery. 

We loaded up and headed out, only to make a 45-minute stop at a Walmart 15 minutes away to re-stock some kiddo supplies (pouches and organic milk that quickly turned into more items.  I think of Canada like Europe, and I never know what to expect on the milk-front).  Eloise passed out during that time and when I got back to the girls and Matt in the parking lot, Sis was on the potty in the Casita.  She’s only had that one sunset hike accident this whole trip.  Don’t get me wrong, it’s great, it just takes more stopping (but my bladder is about on par with hers, so I’m not always complaining ;). 

Our mini-goal was to make it to St. Andrews around lunchtime, a quaint little tourist town just across the border into New Brunswick.  At the border, we fessed up to carrying firewood.  Big mistake.  Eloise’s first steps in Canada were running around the border patrol building while they searched our vehicle outside.  Between that, the Walmart stop, another peepee/gas stop, and the actual time-zone change, we probably lost over two hours. 

St. Andrews’ weather was exactly what we’d hoped the trip would be like: a clear and sunny 65 degrees.  We went to the Kingsbrae Gardens, which is a beautiful outdoor walk through several different types of gardens, but also included two mini-playhouse villages and a mini-animal farm.  Eloise loved the baby goats and alpacas.  They both loved the mini-playhouses, one of which was built in 1909.  Before walking around, we ate lunch at the café on site, which was very good.  Matty and I both had the special of the day – lobster grilled cheese and bisque – and the girls split the penne with chicken.

We had such a great parking spot for the Casita, and some time to kill in nice weather before dinner (we decided not to travel again until the girls’ bedtime, so we walked to the nearby Algonquin Hotel Resort.  It was a large and gorgeous tudor-style hotel with an indoor waterslide and an outdoor pool that was being set up to serve as a wedding venue.  This is one wedding I wish we were able to crash.  The feel of the outdoor patios of the Algonquin reminded me of Carmel Valley… pretty quiet and relaxed, seemingly casual, but warm and scenic.  The wedding site had two large lobster pots and several boxes of lobsters stacked and ready to be thrown in… my kind of party!

We realized it was 6:15 and headed back to the car at the Gardens with one sleeping baby, only to find that we never turned the fridge off of battery charge when we turned off the car.  Needless to say, our battery was quite dead.  Luckily the Gardens were open until 8pm and we had jumper cables.  Unluckily, the one college kid who worked the desk didn’t drive there.  While I went in to use the phone, a lady in the parking lot offered her car for a jump, but her car was dead all morning and had just been running for 45 minutes to re-charge, so it didn’t have enough juice to get ours going.  Jonah (the college kid at the desk) in the meantime supplied me with a few phone numbers, and Eloise with some markers and paper.  He also called a local cab company while I was on with USAA, and drew Eloise a few pictures.  In the time I was on hold, the cabby got there and for $25 US gave us a jump, just about 1 minute before another guy offered to help for free.  Oh well – it was dinner time for the girls (mommy included) so the sooner the better…

There were several restaurants along the waterfront in town, but only one with a flourless chocolate cake on the menu named the “Charlotte Cake.”  So the Niger Reef Tea House was where we ate.  The scenery was pretty – it was low tide and we ate outside at a picnic table over a grassy hill next to the water.  We were also able to park the Casita and leave the car running during dinner to recharge.  There was a park adjacent to the restaurant with some cannons remaining from a blockhouse fortification built against the US during the War of 1812, so Matty got some plaque-reading in on the way to the restaurant.

The food was fresh and good – Matty had the lamb shank, I had the salmon, and the girls had a fish-cake.  I told the owner I was just there for the cake anyway.  It was better than the one at the Jordan Pond House; it was dense and almost had a ganache type of outer chocolate coating.  He told me he puts a smidge of Gran Marnier in the chocolate too, and used to serve it with strawberries, but has since gotten lazy and just uses whipped cream.  He also told me he has a piece every day, (and immediately watches people look at his belly when he tells them that).  I’d probably rank it somewhere in the upper middle of all of the flourless chocolate cakes I’ve had on my quest; it probably could have earned a higher spot, but I think he’d just taken it out of the fridge, and I prefer mine slightly warmed. 

We were the last customers of the night, and Sis and I almost got locked in at closing because he didn’t know we were in the bathroom for one last potty break before hitting the road again.  We got jammies on the ladies and gave them their milks and headed for the highway.  And what a huge amount of driving it’s been.  New Brunswick is like the New Jersey of Canada: it’s just kind of in the way of getting to better places.  This drive is longer than the Turnpike in mileage, but there’s no traffic, which is a definite vantage point.  Or maybe it’s because it’s almost midnight and we’re still on the road…

Baby Gear Used Today:

Transport:
-Car Seats: Britax Advocate + Clek Fllo
-Stroller: Baby Jogger City Mini GT Double
Feeding:
- High Chair:  Fischer Price Folding Travel Chair
-Bottles: Bubba 12-hour cool no-spill mugs
-Utensils: Ikea plasticware

Funny Kiddo Quotes:

Sissy, Dada, and Eloise in a playhouse at the Kingsbrae Gardens:
            Dada: Sissy, can you let me out of the house?
            Sissy: No, you need to stay here and watch my kid because I’m going to leave.

Immediately after going peepee but before flushing at the restaurant after dinner:
Sissy: Mommy, why are you building another nest?
Me: Because I have to go peepee too. 
Sissy: We are going to have a peepee collection!

Pounding Some Lobstahs

5 June 2015
Acadia National Park + Southwest Harbor

We woke up to some chilly, cloudy weather.  We loaded up the bikes and the girls and headed to Acadia.  We planned to either bike the Witch Hole Loop and Eagle Pond Loop or the Upper Hadlock Loop.  Eloise fell asleep in the car and the weather was less than ideal, so we decided to re-order plans and drive the Park Loop during her nap, hoping for a few more degrees before we hit the trails. The downside of this plan was that we didn’t get out of the car much on Park Loop Road, because she was asleep in the car (but we did hop out and snap a few shots here and there).  After she woke up, we walked around some azalea gardens and ponds with a little Asian flare that had some pretty gorgeous photo ops.  We ended up totally skipping the bike idea and had a late picnic lunch on the beach at Echo Pond.  It was kind of a chilly and lazy day, so after lunch we headed back to the campground to build a fire and pack some things up to leave Maine in the morning.  Eloise fell asleep again after lunch on the beach, so she snoozed in the car while we roasted marshmallows around the campfire with Sissy. 

When E woke up, we got dressed for dinner and headed into Southwest Harbor to check out the lobster boats bringing their catch of the day to Beal’s Lobster Pier.  We were a bit early for the last boats of the day, so we drove over to the Charlotte Rhoades butterfly gardens, but our own Charlotte fell asleep in the car this time.  (Eloise finally went somewhere Sissy has not been!)  Upon our return to Beal’s, we caught the end of a dinghy sailboat regatta while hoping for the lobster boats to come in.  While we waited in vain, (Sissy now passed out on dada), we munched on some lobster stew, steamers, and Eloise’s personal fave, corn on the cob. 

Beal’s has the feel of what you’d think a lobster pound should be… picnic tables on the pier, a self-serve condiment station, a small ordering counter, and plastic utensils and cups.  It was neither pretentious nor disappointing (aside from the fact that we missed all the boats coming in!).  We decided, however, not to eat our actual dinner there, as after Yelping for the best lobster pound and doing some travel book research, (I take my lobster very seriously!), Thurston’s was the clear winner on paper.  So we headed over from first-dinner/appetizers at Beal’s to Thurston’s a few towns over. 

The place itself made my photography-loving heart smile… lobster buoys in every color (even my current obsession – bright coral!) adorned a weathered cedar shake building, with brightly colored lobster traps piled all around.  Oh, and a dog that slept on the porch.  Yes.  Thurston’s also had an ordering counter, and it had two seating areas: one near the counter overlooking the water, and another adjacent to that with a large bar and a fireplace.  It was warmer in the bar area and they had counter-height high chairs, so we opted for the slightly worse view over the better view with less warmth.  Of note, both the $3 more per-pound price of lobsters (compared to Beal’s) and the fancier yet still wannabe look of a pier restaurant made Thurston’s seem a bit more upscale than expected, which, for what it was, seemed unnecessary and less authentic.  The lobster meal did come with some pretty yummy blueberry cake though, I must say.  But next time I think I’ll stick to Beal’s.

Baby Gear Used Today:

Car Seats: Britax Advocate & Clek Fllo
High Chair: Fischer Price Folding Travel High Chair
Sleeping: KidCo PeaPod


Monday, June 15, 2015

Acadia National Park

4 June 2015
Acadia National Park

This morning we woke up to sunshine and clear skies.  With plans to set out early to bike the carriage roads of Acadia National Park, we finally made it to the trailhead by around 10:30am.  And that was with some pre-planning.  Sometimes it just seems to take forever to get all these childrens out the door with food in their bellies and shoes on their feet, not to mention layers of clothing in this chilly weather.  The weather was perfect for the bike ride.  Not buggy (while moving), clear, sunny, and around 60.  The carriage road system is so nice at Acadia.  It really makes the park.  We did the stretch from Lower Hadlock Pond to the Jordan Pond House and back.  (The park shuttle, which carries bikes also, was not running yet for the season and we didn’t realize you can drive a car to the Jordan Pond House, otherwise there are other areas we would have preferred to bike).  The trails are extremely well-kept, and the directional markers are super easy to follow.  We brought our mountain bikes on this trip, as the carriage roads are packed dirt and gravel.  (A hybrid would be fine too, but we have mountain and road).

Once at the Jordan Pond House, we were able to get a table outside.  The views were beautiful, and the food wasn’t bad either.  The popovers were warm and yummy, my lobster roll was nice, Matt’s meatloaf sandwich had some good flavor to it, the apple chips were unexpectedly tasty, the blueberry lemonade was tart but customizable regarding sweetness, and they had a flourless chocolate cake (but unfortunately it didn’t even make it close to the top of my flourless-chocolate-cake-snob list, the undefeated champion being the Nemesis Cake at La Tavola Trattoria in the Virginia-Highlands area of Atlanta).  Because the JPH lawn wasn’t yet open for table-seating, we were able to take advantage of the well-groomed grass overlooking the pond for a mini photo shoot.

Both girls fell asleep on the bike ride back to the car.  The next sight to see was the summit of Cadillac Mountain.  It’s apparently the first place to watch the sunrise in the US, as it’s the highest point on the Eastern Seaboard, but let’s be real… we didn’t even make it to the trailhead in the parking lot until 10:30am.  So we checked it out around 2:45 pm instead.  Whatevs… still very scenic, with a wide vista point overlooking countless islands and water. 



Because the bright sun and clear sky were still going strong, and both afternoon naps were over, we decided to head back to the campground for some heated pool time.  After reading reviews on most campgrounds on the island, (surprisingly a lot without hot showers), we found a perfect spot just north of Southwest Harbor - Smuggler’s Den Campground.  Heated pools, firepits, picnic tables, trees and dirt and grass instead of concrete… everything is extremely clean and well-kept, from the bathrooms to the playground to the pool with waterslide.  (I haven’t tried, but I read that you could even buy lobster at the camp store).  I think we were probably the first people of the season to use the pool.  Watching Charlotte try to go down the waterslide, but getting stuck at the bottom was pretty entertaining too. 

Part of La Vida Casita is that there’s always something to be done.  While Matty was grilling the pork chops, I was getting the girls dressed and tidying up our tiny living space, because it’s just not possible to live in clutter when you have four people and only 17 feet of space.  But, it’s a fun challenge to live minimally.  It’s like those Tiny Houses that are catching on in Oregon.  You can only keep what you absolutely need, and it forces you to be organized.

After dinner we went to the Bass Harbor Head Lighthouse for some sunset pics.  I didn’t know what to expect, but there were a lot of photographers with their tripods on the rocks, being all profesh and stuff.  I pretended I knew what I was doing, but didn’t have the patience (or body insulation) to stick around.  Also, Matty and the girls couldn’t join me out on the rocks, and it was resultantly the first time Sis wet her pants this trip, so, while beautiful, it wasn’t quite what I had in mind for sunset-watching.  We may try the actual harbor area tomorrow if the sun decides to join us again…


Baby Gear Used:

Car Seats (Britax Advocate & Clek Fllo)

High Chair (Fischer Price travel folding chair)

Bike Trailer/Stroller: The Baby Jogger POD (sadly, discontinued).  Back when we lived in California, I sort of went stroller crazy.  And then I totally went bike trailer crazy.  We had a colleague of mine from the VA living with us for a month or so during her transition to the West Coast, and at one point during her stay, we were strapping large stuffed animals into the trailer harnesses and performing crash and rollover tests with the two Chariot Cougar doubles and one Baby Jogger POD I had in my living room.  (Craigslist and Amazon are wonderful things).  Ultimately it came down to a storage-size conversation that ended on Matt saying “if you want to go to Nantucket for a week, keep the POD.”  So I did, and we did.  (But I’m happy to have the decision-making conversation with you, which would now include the one I’ve set my sights on that came out since my crash-testing days… the Chariot (now Thule) Chinook 2.  Swoon.


Saturday, June 13, 2015

And we're off...

3 June 2015

Bar Harbor, ME

Yesterday morning, after a rushed packing job and some microwaved leftovers, we set out on this year’s Haith family adventure:  Matty, Sissy, Eloise, myself, and the newest member of our family – another Casita!  Ever since we sold our last one on Craigslist in California, we’ve missed that little guy.  We’d sort of given up on finding one that would work with our since-grown family, (or finding one in general on the East Coast), until one random night in early April when we saw a listing for one that had bunk beds, and it was located in southwest Virginia.  A few emails and phone calls later (and a missed opportunity on the most amazing Airstream ever), and we sent our down payment, sight-unseen. 

Sissy was most excited about sleeping in the Casita.  The bottom bunk “fort” is hers.  Howard (the previous Casita owner) even went to a children’s consignment sale to rig a bed guard for her down there.  Initially both girls were going to on the bottom bunk, but separated and each in their own Peapod.  Ultimately, we were able to borrow a clamping guardrail from a neighbor for the top bunk, and so that’s where Eloise’s Peapod ended up for easier access. 

Day 1 did not go off without any hitches (pun intended?).  Aside from Sissy choosing that day out of the last 400+ since getting her first potty to definitively never wet her diaper again made a long car-ride even longer, especially when peepee stop #1 was (cringe) during Eloise’s nap, (or at least that’s what she was doing when we stopped the car), there were a few Casita-related issues as well.  For example, I *might* have overloaded the fridge door, causing it to sort of fall off (fitting for the title of this post), resulting in the entire Casita smelling like the leftover Thai food we got in Freeport just before our “it’s too early for bed energy-burning run-around stop” at L.L. Bean.  Also adding about 30-40 minutes to our L.L. Bean stop at bedtime.  But it’s all speculation, really.  I mean, maybe Matt hit a pothole or something (while driving under the speed limit in the slow-lane from 11:30 yesterday morning-2:30 this morning), causing the door to fly off.  Who’s to say, really.  This morning, when recounting our trip yesterday, Sissy said “Last night was scary.  The fridge door fell off…” 

Today, after not enough sleep once we finally arrived at our campground in Southwest Harbor, we got up, re-organized, and went into town.  We picked up our Acadia National Park pass so we would be ready to hit the bike trails in the morning, and then headed over to the Oceanarium to check out the lobster hatchery.  Unfortchy, we showed Sis the hatchery before any of the other parts of the museum, and she was immediately freaked out by the pregnant lobster being held up with a bunch of eggs stuck to its tail.  Her participation interest in other non-lobster-touching parts of the museum immediately plummeted.  It was all I could do to get her to put on a fisherman’s hat and hold a buoy on an indoor boat.  She finally warmed up to the starfish, sea cucumber, and urchin in the touch tank, but was less than excited to learn about the giant horseshoe crab.

After the hatchery, we headed into Bar Harbor for some clam chowdah on this less-than-summery day.  The weather has been cold (highs in the mid-50s) and cloudy; not quite the ideal “summer” vacation by any means.  We ate at Side Street Café, because I Yelped and asked a local for the best clam chowder around, since it was more of a chowder and less of a lobster-roll day.  We also shared the lobster mac ’n cheese among the four of us.  (After ordering it at Cabana in Nashville anytime I’m even just passing through the area, I’ve become sort of a lobster mac ‘n cheese snob, aside from just being a food snob in general).  I have to say, initially I wasn’t expecting it to be even close, but it was pretty great.  Maybe it was the portion comparison… for $23.95 we got a big pasta dish full of melty, cheesy shells, covered with more cheese shavings, and a pile of fresh, sweet Maine lobster to top it off.  At Cabana, for a $10 appetizer, the lobster mac ‘n cheese comes with a brie cheese, a notable-for-the-central-US amount of lobster, and is topped with pancetta and presented in a martini glass.  So while both are very different, both are quite delicious.  Win-win, really.

After lunch, and popping into a whale gift shop for Sissy to pet a Chiweenie, (Chihuahua-Dachshund mix), we took the shore walk around Bar Harbor.  Eloise fell asleep in the stroller (thus missing out on seeing the fox we came across on the walk) and woke up as we were choosing our travel Christmas ornament, just in time for some homemade ice cream and gelato at Ben & Bill’s Chocolate Emporium.  They have lobster ice cream.  Real Maine lobster, melted butter, and vanilla ice cream all mixed in a big ice cream tub.  Ridic.

We ate leftovers around the campfire tonight before one last trip to the camp playground before bed.  Still no potty accidents for Sis. 



Baby Gear used so far:

Day 1 & 2: 
-Car seats:  (For what seemed like a never-ending car ride).  Eloise is rear-facing in Sissy’s previous Britax Advocate convertible.   Sissy is rear-facing in the new Clek Fllo I bought (after months of multi-faceted research) when Eloise started to out-grow her infant seat (by height, not weight… peanuts).  Ultimately I plan to move both girls into matching Cleks.  If you want to have a conversation about my decision-making process, (which included several calls to Canada, a trip to New Jersey, and watching crash-test videos before sharing them with a Fireman for a second-opinion), set aside a good 45 minutes and I’ll pencil you in ;).
-Travel beds:  Eloise is sleeping in a Peapod by KidCo, behind a Safety1st clamping guardrail.  (Make sure if you buy a Peapod, it’s a newer model that has the netting along the bottom.  The older models that had tent-like material all the way down were recalled due to suffocation hazards).  I was tempted to get the Peapod Plus for Sis (same, just larger), but it didn’t fit in the bunk space, and she still fits in the small Peapod for now anyway.  Turns out she’s just sleeping with a bed guardrail on the bottom bunk and not in the Peapod at all.  (And by sleeping I mean serenading us for the past hour while Eloise sleeps above her).   Casita life…
-High-chair cover.  Say “no” to germs.  At least on one surface you can control.  Then just let your offspring toddle around the floors of a Thai restaurant and finger-feed themselves glass noodles.  Good thing you had that high-chair cover, though, right?.
-High-Chair:  Fisher-price folding travel high chair.  I can’t say enough good things about this.  Maybe I should just say that I’ve got two.  We even used it in a teeny L.L. Bean camping chair around the campfire tonight.  It’s my baby-container in our (decade-old Geico-commercial-esque) “Tiny House” on wheels. 
-Stroller:  Today we used the Baby Jogger City Mini GT Double.  We were in and out of restaurants and stores, and the GT tires handled the gravel cliffwalk nicely while Eloise slept.  We were able to fold it up and store it quickly and easily in the restaurant, though when Matt opened it the front wheels needed to be re-attached.  (Disclaimer: I think the tire issue is a result of the previous owners as I purchased it on Craigslist in Brooklyn.  I never had that problem with my single, but it continues to happen with the double, and this one came with two new tires that I put on because the prior owner had worn the others out). 



Sissy Quote of the day:

Sissy:  Look mommy a crab!
Me:  That’s a lobster, Sis.  Both have claws, but lobsters are longer, and crabs are wider. 

Sissy:  Wide just like Eloise’s head!